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Buying a Home

Six steps from first conversation to keys in hand, with the timing and the traps at each one.

The process

How buying works

Most of this happens before you tour a single house. Here is the whole path, with how long each step really takes.

  1. Deciding to Buy

    Before anything else You and me

    Why now, and why buy? Building equity instead of paying rent, more space, a better commute, an investment. We will talk through your reasons, your timing and an honest first look at the budget, and I will explain exactly how I work.

    Bring your wish list, but also your deal-breakers. The second list saves far more time.

  2. Preparing to Buy

    A week or two You and a lender

    Gather pay stubs, statements and tax returns, check your credit, and get preapproved. The lender's letter sets your real budget, and it is what makes a seller take your offer seriously.

    Mortgage inquiries within a short window - 14 to 45 days, depending on the scoring model - count as one on your credit, so compare two or three lenders.

  3. Choosing a Real Estate Agent

    Before your first tour You

    Look for a full-time agent who knows the neighborhoods you want, answers the phone and can show you results. Buyers now sign a written agreement with their agent before touring, and it spells out what you pay, if anything.

    Ask any agent for recent homes they helped someone buy nearby, and a past client you can call.

  4. Time to Go Shopping

    Weeks to months You and me

    Drive the neighborhoods, get instant alerts for new listings, and tour the homes worth your Saturday - I will tell you the good and the expensive in each. When you find the one, I pull the recent sales and structure an offer to win without overpaying.

    The highest offer does not always win. A clean, certain offer is worth real money to a seller.

  5. Escrow, Inspections and Appraisals

    The 30 to 45 days after your offer is accepted You, inspectors, lender, title

    Your deposit goes into escrow and the title company checks the title. An inspector goes through the house top to bottom and I negotiate repairs or credits on anything that turns up, while the lender's appraisal confirms the value.

    Go to the inspection. An hour with the inspector teaches you more about the house than the report ever will.

  6. Moving In

    Closing day Everyone

    A final walk-through, utilities switched on, a stack of signatures and the keys are yours. I will be there, and I will have checked every number on the closing statement beforehand.

    Between offer and closing, do not open new credit, change jobs or move large sums of money. Any of them can delay the loan.

Budget

What would it cost each month?

Taxes, insurance and HOA included – the number lenders and portals often leave out.

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An estimate for planning only, not a loan offer. Mortgage insurance is approximated at 0.5% a year when less than 20% is put down. Ask your lender for a Loan Estimate for exact figures.

Questions

Buyers ask me

Do I pay you to help me buy?

In most transactions the buyer's agent is paid at closing, often through a concession negotiated with the seller. Since 2024 buyers sign a written agreement with their agent before touring homes, and it states exactly what the compensation is. I will walk you through it before you sign anything.

How much do I need for a down payment?

Less than most people think. Conventional loans start at 3% down, FHA at 3.5%, and VA and USDA loans can be zero down for those who qualify. Twenty percent avoids mortgage insurance, but it is not a requirement.

Should I sell first or buy first?

It depends on your finances and your market. Selling first gives you certainty and a stronger offer; buying first avoids moving twice. There are tools that bridge the gap - we will work out which one fits.

Can I buy a home that is not on the MLS?

Often, yes. Off-market and coming-soon homes, for-sale-by-owner and new construction are all possible. Part of my job is hearing about them before they are public.

What does a home inspection cover?

Structure, roof, electrical, plumbing, heating and cooling, and visible defects. Specialists check things like sewer lines, radon or pests when there is reason to. The findings give you room to negotiate repairs or a credit.

Client stories

Buyers I have helped